Nashira—We Will Sing: Remembering Ashira with Her Parents

In this poignant episode of Grief & Grit, we sit down with Debbie Derby and Barry Rabinowitz, parents of Ashira—a vibrant, fearless, and joy-filled young woman whose sudden passing left an unimaginable void, but also a powerful legacy.

Ashira, whose name means I will sing, was a force of light. She danced through life—literally and metaphorically—lifting others with her humor, confidence, and magnetic spirit. After her death, Debbie and Barry were overwhelmed by stories from Ashira’s vast circle of friends, many of whom described her as their best friend, mentor, or chosen family.

Together, we explore the rawness of their grief, the rituals that bring them comfort, and the creation of Nashira, a nonprofit rooted in Ashira’s memory that helps teenage girls lead with joy, strength, and friendship.

This is a conversation about the ache of absence—and the beauty of continuing someone’s song.

• Learn more about Nashira, the nonprofit founded in Ashira’s memory.

• Quote of the episode: “Tell your friends you love them.”

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